Month: September 2025

If you’ve ever thought that men reaching multiple orgasms was some kind of myth, you’re not alone. Many believe it is something only women can experience. Yet with practice and the right techniques, multiple male orgasms are absolutely possible. The best male sex toys can help you get there faster, but the real groundwork is in learning how to control your own body.

This guide explores how to unlock that potential, focusing on what you can experiment with all on your own. From strengthening the pelvic floor to playing with edging, each technique helps you take back a level of control that most men assume is off the table.

And the benefits go beyond sheer novelty: Stronger orgasms, heightened arousal, and longer sessions are all part of the package.

Contents:

• Understanding the Stages of Orgasm and the Refractory Period
• Pelvic Floor Exercises for Men
• Edging
• Breathing
• Prostate Orgasms
• Bringing It All Together

Understanding the Stages of Orgasm and the Refractory Period

Multiple orgasms means having several orgasms in a single session. Many experience them as gradual waves of pleasure, or an intense climax followed by smaller ones. Although multiple orgasms are more common for women than men, using certain techniques can help you unlock these multiple orgasmic sensations.

To master multiple orgasms, you first need to understand what actually happens in the male sexual response cycle. Sexual arousal has four main stages:

• Arousal: The build-up, when your body responds physically and mentally to stimulation.
• Plateau: The point where excitement stabilizes at a high level, the body tenses and climax approaches.
• Orgasm: The peak of sensation, often tied directly to ejaculation.
• Refractory period: The recovery phase, when the body resists further stimulation.

For most men, ejaculation and orgasm happen together, followed by the refractory period that winds everything down. This recovery window can last minutes or hours, depending on age, health and experience. During this time, erections are difficult or impossible, and sensitivity is often uncomfortable. It’s this that usually makes multiple orgasms impossible for men.

But orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. With training, men can learn to separate the two, experiencing an orgasm without ejaculating. This means you can continue to experience several orgasms without ejaculation. These non-ejaculatory orgasms can dramatically shorten or even bypass the refractory period. Many men experience these dry orgasms as full-body with a release of feel-good chemicals.

A dry orgasm occurs when you climax without releasing semen. This can happen naturally after prostate play or through controlled practice. The body still experiences orgasmic contractions and the same euphoric feeling, but you don’t have to worry about ejaculating and the refractory period.

If you’re looking for more ways to achieve the most pleasure, check out our guide on how to use a pocket pussy to enhance your satisfaction.

Pelvic Floor Exercises for Men

If you want more control over ejaculation, the pelvic floor is where to start. These are the muscles that contract when you try to stop urinating midstream, also called pubococcygeus or PC muscles. Strengthening them gives you the ability to hold back ejaculation and extend the orgasmic build-up.

How to identify and exercise these muscles:

• Next time you urinate, try stopping the flow. The muscles you engage are your pelvic floor.
• Once you’ve identified them, practice by contracting and holding for three to five seconds, then relaxing.
• Repeat in sets of 10, gradually increasing the hold time as you get stronger.

Benefits of pelvic floor training include:

• Improved control over ejaculation
• More powerful orgasms
• Higher likelihood of reaching multiple orgasms

Over time, stronger pelvic muscles allow you to choose whether or not to ejaculate, a skill that directly supports non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Edging

Edging is the practice of taking yourself close to orgasm, then stopping or slowing down before you climax. It teaches you how to stay in the plateau phase and separate the sensation of orgasm from the act of ejaculation.

Masturbation is the perfect way to practice this. Bring yourself close to orgasm, then pause or slow down until the urge to ejaculate fades. Resume stimulation and repeat. It can take patience, but the payoff is a much more intense release.

Male masturbators are excellent tools for this kind of training. Realistic textures, vibrations and suction make edging sessions more stimulating while giving you precise control. Vibrating or textured pocket pussies, as well as automatic blowjob toys, can take you right to the edge, then you can use your pelvic floor contractions to hold back ejaculation.

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Tips for successful edging sessions:

• Use lube generously for smoother control.
• Experiment with different grips, toys and speeds to see what keeps you closest to the edge.
• When the urge to climax feels overwhelming, practice breathing techniques (see below) while tightening the pelvic floor muscles.

With practice, edging builds endurance, amplifies orgasm intensity and sets the stage for multiple male orgasms in one session.

Learn more techniques for using sex dolls in our handy guide.

Breathing

Most men underestimate the role of breath in sexual control. Shallow, fast breathing often signals the body to climax quickly. Deep, slow breathing helps calm arousal, improve stamina and delay ejaculation.

When you feel close to orgasm, switch your focus to deep belly breathing:

• Inhale slowly through your nose, letting your stomach expand.
• Exhale fully through your mouth, releasing tension.
• Keep this rhythm steady as stimulation continues.

The more mindful your breathing, the more control you’ll have. Combine this with pelvic floor contractions, and you can maintain high arousal without letting ejaculation take over.

Prostate Orgasms

The prostate, often called the male G-spot, is one of the most powerful keys to multiple orgasms. Located just inside the rectum, this gland is packed with nerve endings and, when stimulated, can produce climaxes that feel fuller and longer than penile orgasms. Crucially, prostate orgasms can occur without ejaculation, which means no refractory period.

Toys to explore include:

• Anal plugs for constant pressure and fullness
• Dildos for penetration and movement
• Anal vibrators for targeted stimulation

To stimulate the prostate, apply gentle pressure towards the front wall of the rectum. Start slowly, use lube generously and experiment with angles. Vibrators often make finding and stimulating the prostate much easier, especially for beginners.

The advantages of prostate orgasms are hard to ignore: more intense sensations, longer duration and the possibility of stringing several orgasms together without the forced downtime that ejaculation brings.

Browse through our collection of anal sex toys and prostate massagers to find the perfect one for you.

Bringing It All Together

Kegels, edging, breathing and prostate play are not isolated techniques. The real power comes from combining them. For example, you might use a prostate vibrator during an edging session, controlling your breath and pelvic floor contractions to avoid ejaculation, but enjoy orgasmic bliss. This synergy makes multiple orgasms for men more achievable than focusing on a single method.

Some practical advice:

• Start solo before experimenting with a partner. Masturbation lets you practise at your own pace.
• Take time to experiment with different toys and techniques.
• Do not expect results overnight. Mastery comes with practice, and everybody responds differently.

Ready to Experience Prolonged Pleasure?

Multiple orgasms for men are within reach with the right approach. Dry orgasms open up an entirely new territory for pleasure, turning one-off releases into extended sessions of pleasure.

SoloFun’s curated range of anal toys, male masturbators and prostate vibrators makes experimenting easier. Pick one product that excites your curiosity and start practicing. With patience and consistency, multiple orgasms move from rare possibility to a real part of your sexual routine. Browse through some of our blowjob tools or grab a pocket pussy to find a toy to help you practice your technique.

If you’re still unsure which sex toys you want to try, see our guide to all the different types of sex toys for men.

Exploring male sex toys is an easy way to add variety, discover new sensations, and make solo play more satisfying.

For those completely new to the idea, the range of options can feel overwhelming. But different toys exist for a reason: each type of toy is designed to give you control and maximize pleasure in different ways.

At SoloFun, we’re experts in male sex toys. This guide takes you through the main categories, what they offer, and why they’ve become some of the most popular male masturbation toys on the market.

Contents:

• What to Consider Before Buying
• Pocket Pussies
• Anal Toys
• Blowjob Tools
• Realistic Sex Dolls
• Which Toy to Choose?

What to Consider Before Buying

Before picking your first toy, it helps to think about a few practical points. Material is one of the most important. Quality toys are made from body-safe silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), both of which can replicate the feel of real skin. Silicone tends to be firmer and more durable, while TPE is flexible.

Buying a quality toy, instead of making a DIY pocket pussy at home, means you can get to use it over and over again. So, you have to think about how easy the toy is to maintain. Most toys need washing with warm water and a mild soap or dedicated cleaner after every use. Drying thoroughly keeps them fresh and avoids bacteria build-up.

When it comes to size, beginners often prefer lighter and smaller toys, while heavier and firmer models can feel more lifelike. Noise level is worth noting too, especially if you want discretion. Some vibrating or automatic toys are near-silent, while others can be noticeable.

Learn how to care for your sex toys with our guide on how to clean a pocket pussy.

Pocket Pussies

Pocket pussies are one of the simplest and most popular ways to explore male toys. These soft sleeves are designed to mimic a real pussy, but many models also include oral and anal entrances for variety.

Features of pocket pussies:

• Highly realistic textures, designed to feel like the real thing with ridges, bumps, and walls that grip onto you tightly.
• Tight pocket pussies are made to give an intense snug sensation.
• Vibrating pocket pussies allow for added stimulation.

The appeal of a pocket pussy lies in its convenience. They are small, discreet, and easy to clean. For those who want realism without the size of a doll, they deliver a genuinely lifelike experience. The choice of different internal structures also allows you to switch between sensations with the same toy.

Browse through our collection and find the perfect pocket pussy for you.

Anal Toys

Anal toys open up a completely different set of sensations, and they don’t all look or feel the same.
Beginners often start with an anal training kit. These sets include plugs in gradually increasing sizes, making it safe and comfortable to explore at your own pace. You can focus on relaxation without worrying about it being too much to handle.

If hands-free play sounds appealing, suction cup toys are a perfect choice. They stick to flat surfaces and let you thrust against them without you needing to hold the toy in place. For a more advanced option, vibrating or thrusting anal toys add more stimulation. Their added intensity creates an even stronger feeling that will turn your pleasure up to the max.

Anal plugs are simple but effective, designed to stay in place and provide a sensation that leaves you feeling filled. More advanced users often try prostate massagers. These toys are curved specifically to reach the prostate, and many models add vibration for powerful orgasms unlike any other.

Anal toys can expand pleasure zones and are easy to use for beginners. Explore our male anal sex toys and find the right one to increase your pleasure.

Blowjob Tools

If you want the closest thing to oral sex, blowjob tools are designed with that in mind. Automatic vibrating and rotating cups use mechanical motion to imitate the feel of a mouth, with the sensations of the tongue and swallowing expertly recreated. Inside, textured sleeves add extra grip, with options to change suction, speed, and rhythm.

• Many feature different vibration modes
• Some vary from up and down pulsing to intense rotations
• They are discreet with removable covers that make them easy to store and clean.
• You only need to press a button and lie back

You get the sensation of oral play on demand, with the bonus of being able to set the pace and intensity to your liking.

Explore our automatic male masturbators to get your taste of the realistic experience.

Realistic Sex Dolls

If you’re looking for something immersive, realistic sex dolls are the most lifelike option available. They come in different forms depending on what you want.

Torsos focus on the essentials, with both vaginal and anal entrances. What makes them popular is that they are lighter and easier to handle than full dolls. They’re designed with detail and weight for a very lifelike experience.

You get to enjoy multiple entry points and they’re highly durable when looked after properly. Unlike small toys, they’re the whole package.

Shop our realistic sex dolls and see which one could become your new obsession.

Which Toy to Choose?

If you’re looking for something that’s easy to hide and feels like real life, pocket pussies are perfect. If you’re looking for something with more intensity, consider going for an automatic blowjob tool. For a fully immersive experience, a realistic sex doll torso gives you the most authentic experience.

Beginners often enjoy starting with a simple sleeve or plug, but as you gain experience you can combine toys for more complex play. If you try using a pocket pussy alongside a prostate massager, you can enjoy dual stimulation. If discretion and storage are important, smaller toys make sense, but if realism is your priority, dolls are the clear choice.

Ready to Dive in?

Exploring toys is about matching your curiosity with the features that excite you most. At SoloFun, you’ll find a wide selection, from simple sleeves to advanced dolls, all designed with body-safe materials and tested for quality.

Take a look at the range, read what others say in the reviews, and choose the one that suits you best. Your first step towards better solo time or enhanced shared play is only a click away.

Once you’ve decided on a toy, we have guides on how to use a pocket pussy or have sex with a sex doll correctly.

Let’s get straight to it. A pocket pussy already feels fantastic in its own right but the truth is many men use it the same way every time: Stroke, finish, done. That is fine but if you are looking to push the limits of solo play there are ways to make it far more intense.

Some of the techniques might sound unusual yet once you try them you will see how they can skyrocket your pleasure. Taking things to the next level can let you unlock new sensations and make it feel even more lifelike. You’ll never be bored with your fleshlight again! With the right tricks every session can feel fresh, surprising and a lot more satisfying.

Contents:

• Understanding Your Pocket Pussy
• Preparation for Enhanced Sensation
• Innovative Techniques
• Altering Feel and Tension
• Add to the Pleasure

Understanding Your Pocket Pussy

Not all strokers are created equal. Most are made from silicone or TPE with textures such as ridges bumps or nodules designed to grip and massage as you move. The firmness of the material plays a big role too. A softer toy will give a cushiony feel while a firmer sleeve presses against every vein and curve. Understanding what you’re working with can help you alter your technique for the perfect sensations.

Some have an external case that holds them firm which means the toy keeps its tightness. Others are case free and let your grip do the work so you can squeeze for more pressure or loosen for gentler glide.

You will even find models with both vaginal and anal entrances for a change in sensation. When choosing the right one, think about what kind of ridges, bumps and stimulation will get you off.

If you’re curious how you can make your own pocket pussy, see our guide to creating one with safe materials you already have.

Preparation for Enhanced Sensation

If you want it to feel like the real thing, warming the toy with a bowl of warm water before play can trick your body into believing it is a real pussy. Looking for an extra kick? Warming lubes achieve a similar effect as they spread inside. You can take the opposite approach as well. A chilled sleeve briefly put in the fridge will deliver a sharp shock that quickly turns into pleasure.

Do not limit yourself to standard lube either. Try a dab of tingly or buzzing formula but always make sure it is safe for the material of your toy. As long as it’s water-based, it won’t damage your silicone or TPE toy. Adding lube halfway through a session is another easy way to change the feeling. That fresh wave of slickness resets your nerves and prolongs the ride.

Innovative Techniques

Once you are prepped it is time to move beyond the basic in out motion. There is much more you can do. Try experimenting with these ideas to see how they change your pleasure.

Start with changing your rhythm. Slow deliberate strokes bring out every texture inside the toy. Mix them with quick thrusts and you will feel your body react to the contrast.

Other ways to switch things up include:

• Twist and rotate while you move to create a corkscrew effect that stimulates every side.
• Pause halfway then squeeze the toy before thrusting back in for a sudden shock of intensity.
• Use a pumping motion with shallow strokes followed by a deep push to create rolling waves of sensation.

You can also play with pressure. Grip the outside of the sleeve with your free hand to adjust tightness as you stroke. Light pressure gives glide while firm pressure creates a vice-like hold. Switching it up between light and firm techniques gives you different sensations that can change up the usual feeling you get from your fleshlight.

For extra variety, try angled thrusting to target different textures and shallow strokes that concentrate on the head only. Small changes like these might not sound dramatic but they turn a regular wank into something far more exciting.

If you want to stretch out your play then practise edging. Use the techniques above to build yourself close to orgasm, stop and then start again. Each cycle increases sensitivity until you finally let go and the release is far stronger. As is the pleasure.

Altering Feel and Tension

Going beyond how you use your toy, you can also alter the sleeve to give you a different experience. If you want to adjust how tight the toy feels, there are simple hacks:

• Make the canal smaller – Insert a rolled tissue or a small sponge wrapped safely at the end of the canal. This reduces internal space and makes every thrust feel deeper.
• Make the sleeve tighter – You can also use rubber bands around the outside of the sleeve. The extra squeeze makes the canal narrower and adds a level of grip you will not get otherwise.
• Temperature play – Pop the sleeve in the fridge for a short time until it is cold to the touch but not solid. Alternate between the warmth of your body and the chill of the toy and you will experience a pulsing effect that keeps you on edge.

Add to the Pleasure

You are not limited to the stroker alone. Why not add more toys and accessories to multiply the intensity?

Sound can make a big difference. Put on erotic audio and your brain will heighten arousal in response, or try music with a steady beat that can guide your rhythm or help you switch pace.

A small vibrator held against the perineum or shaft delivers steady buzz while the sleeve does its work. Anal toys such as slim dildos or plugs add deep p-spot stimulation that combines perfectly with the tight grip in front for enhanced pleasure. Even simple external pressure around the perineum while stroking can fire up sensations you did not expect.

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Make Your Solo Sessions Even Better

Every session can be as inventive as you want it to be. These solo techniques are not complicated yet they transform what you get from your toy. Explore them one by one, mix them together and feel the difference in every stroke.

Ready to try a male masturbator for yourself? Browse through our range of male sex toys today. You will find strokers that are tight, with vibrating options that take control for you and designs with multiple holes and textures to discover.

Still got more questions? See if we’ve answered them in our male sex toy FAQ.

Let’s be honest here: nothing beats the feel of a top-quality, professionally made pocket pussy (well, apart from a real pussy, of course). But we also get it… Sometimes you’re curious, short on cash, or just want to experiment with a DIY version.

That’s why we’ve put together this practical guide on how to make a homemade pocket pussy. Sure, it won’t exactly match the quality of a real stroker, but with the right materials and a bit of creativity, you can get pretty damn close.

Contents:

• Why Try a DIY Pocket Pussy?
• Materials You’ll Need
• Step-by-Step DIY Guide
• How to Improve the Experience
• Safety and Hygiene Tips

Why Try a DIY Pocket Pussy?

There are a few reasons men experiment with homemade toys, and if you’re considering it, you’re far from alone.

Here’s why guys give the DIY route a go:

• Cost: Good toys are worth every penny, but if you’re skint or just not ready to invest, the DIY version can be put together with things you’ve already got lying around. Think of it as a test run or a free trial before splashing out.
• Curiosity: There’s a certain fun in seeing how close you can get with household items. Many men just want to test the idea and learn what they like before buying a toy designed for it.
• Privacy: Not everyone is comfortable ordering sex toys straight away. Making your own gives you a low-risk way to try one and then discard of as soon as you’re done with it.

That said, homemade toys are always going to be a compromise. They don’t have the lifelike textures, safety-tested materials, or durability of a professionally designed stroker. If you’re serious about pleasure, you’ll eventually want to move on to something made for the job. But for now, let’s take a look at what you’ll need to craft your homemade pleasure machine…

Materials You’ll Need

The good news is you don’t need power tools or anything fancy. Most DIY pocket pussies are built from basic household items, but the trick is choosing the right combination so it feels safe and comfortable.

Here’s what usually works best:

• • A cylindrical container or tube: Toilet roll tubes are the quick option, but they’re flimsy and can collapse. A sturdy plastic bottle (with the top cut off and edges taped smooth) or a short length of PVC pipe gives you something more solid. And yes, a Pringles tube would work just as well, too.
  • Soft lining material: Latex gloves and condoms are the go-to because they’re smooth, stretchable, and body-safe. A plastic bag can work in a pinch, but it’s more likely to tear and won’t feel as natural.
  • Padding: Towels, sponges, or socks wrapped around the outside of your tube give you pressure and comfort. The tighter you wrap, the snugger it feels, so you can adjust the “fit.”
  • Elastic bands or tape: These keep everything in place. Without them, your toy will fall apart mid-session. Talk about blue balls…
  • Lubricant: Non-negotiable. Water-based lube is the safest choice and closest to the real thing. Skip oil-based products (e.g., petroleum jelly like Vaseline, body oils, coconut oil), as they can weaken latex, irritate skin, and degrade some plastics.

With just those materials, you can put together a simple toy in under ten minutes. Just make sure everything you use is clean, and double-check there are no sharp edges (ouch) or rough spots before you get started.

How to Make a Pocket Pussy – A Step-by-Step DIY Guide

You’ve got your materials… now here’s how to put it all together into something that actually feels decent.

Take your time with each step and don’t cut corners, because comfort and safety matter just as much as sensation.

1. Prepare the base: Grab your chosen tube (toilet roll, bottle, or PVC pipe). If it’s cardboard, check that it isn’t damp or flimsy, as it won’t last long. If it’s plastic, cut the top off and carefully smooth or tape over any sharp edges — the last thing you want near your cock is jagged plastic.
2. Line the canal: Slide a glove, condom, or plastic bag into the tube. The opening should hang over the edge so you can fold it back and secure it. This keeps the lining in place and prevents it from slipping inside during use.
3. Add padding: Wrap a towel, sponge, or thick sock around the outside of the tube to add cushioning and pressure. The tighter you wrap, the firmer and snugger it’ll feel. Use tape or elastic bands to hold it all together.
4. Lube it up: Pour a good amount of water-based lubricant inside the lining. Don’t skimp here — without enough lube, it won’t feel realistic and you risk tearing the lining. Rotate the toy a little to spread it evenly.
5. Test and adjust: Start slow. Slide in gently to check the fit and comfort. If it’s too loose, add more padding. Too tight? Loosen the wrap or swap for a bigger tube. Adjust until it feels smooth and natural enough to enjoy.

The first time might be trial and error, but once you’ve built one, you’ll quickly figure out what tweaks make it work best for you. And remember: cleanup is not optional. A DIY toy can get messy fast, so check out our guide to cleaning pocket pussies for essential aftercare tips.

How to Improve the Experience

A basic DIY pocket pussy will get the job done, but if you want to push it closer to the real thing, here are some tricks that make a big difference:

• Add warmth: Warmth makes everything feel more realistic. Heat the lining under warm running water before use, or rest the whole toy (sealed in a bag) in hot water for a few minutes. Just avoid boiling or scalding water, which can damage your materials.
• Experiment with textures: Slip a soft sponge, cloth, or bubble wrap between the lining and the tube to create ridges or bumps inside the canal. You can experiment with different fabrics to see what feels best.
• Upgrade with vibrations: Place a bullet vibrator, an electric toothbrush handle (wrapped safely), or even a phone with a vibration setting alongside the canal. The added buzz can turn the sensation up to eleven.
• Customise tightness: Want a stronger squeeze? Add an extra elastic band or wrap another layer of padding. Prefer it looser? Remove a layer and go softer.

Got more questions beyond the DIY stuff? See what else we’ve covered in our sex toy FAQ blog.

Safety and Hygiene Tips

Homemade toys can be fun for a one-off experiment, but safety should always come first.

Unlike professional strokers, DIY builds aren’t designed for repeated use, so you need to be extra cautious with hygiene and handling:

• Clean immediately after use: Warm water and mild soap will do the trick. Don’t just rinse and forget… fluids can soak into sponges or fabrics and cause bacteria if left.
• Don’t share it: DIY toys aren’t built for multiple users. Even if you replace the lining, sharing raises the risk of infection.
• Replace the lining every time: Condoms, gloves, or plastic bags are single-use only. They tear easily and can trap bacteria if reused.
• Inspect before each session: If there are rips, rough edges, or mould spots (yes, it can happen), don’t risk it. Bin it and start fresh.
• Limit re-use: DIY toys aren’t designed to last. After a handful of uses, the materials will wear down and become unsafe. Think of it as a short-term experiment, not a long-term investment.

And while you might be tempted to toss a homemade toy into your suitcase for a trip, it’s honestly not worth it. They’re awkward to pack, messy to clean on the go, and unlikely to survive the journey intact.

If you want safe, discreet travel options, check out our blog on taking sex toys abroad — it covers how to pack real toys properly, what’s allowed through airport security, and which destinations to avoid.

CBA with DIY? Buy From SoloFun!

Making your own pocket pussy at home is a fun little project. With the right materials, you can whip up something that gives you a taste of what a real stroker feels like. That being said, we both know it’ll never match the lifelike textures, safe materials, and durability of a proper toy.

If you’re after genuine sensations — the kind that feel closer to the real thing, last much longer, and don’t involve faffing about with tape and towels — then it’s time to upgrade. Our top-grade selection of sex toys for men is designed to keep you satisfied session after session. They’re easy to clean, discreet to store, and engineered to deliver the kind of pleasure no DIY hack can replicate.

So sure, give the homemade version a go if you’re curious. But when you’re ready for the real deal, skip the trial runs and explore our full range today. Your cock will thank you.