Let’s get straight to it. A pocket pussy already feels fantastic in its own right but the truth is many men use it the same way every time: Stroke, finish, done. That is fine but if you are looking to push the limits of solo play there are ways to make it far more intense.
Some of the techniques might sound unusual yet once you try them you will see how they can skyrocket your pleasure. Taking things to the next level can let you unlock new sensations and make it feel even more lifelike. You’ll never be bored with your fleshlight again! With the right tricks every session can feel fresh, surprising and a lot more satisfying.
Contents:
- Understanding Your Pocket Pussy
- Preparation for Enhanced Sensation
- Innovative Techniques
- Altering Feel and Tension
- Add to the Pleasure
Understanding Your Pocket Pussy
Not all strokers are created equal. Most are made from silicone or TPE with textures such as ridges bumps or nodules designed to grip and massage as you move. The firmness of the material plays a big role too. A softer toy will give a cushiony feel while a firmer sleeve presses against every vein and curve. Understanding what you’re working with can help you alter your technique for the perfect sensations.
Some have an external case that holds them firm which means the toy keeps its tightness. Others are case free and let your grip do the work so you can squeeze for more pressure or loosen for gentler glide.
You will even find models with both vaginal and anal entrances for a change in sensation. When choosing the right one, think about what kind of ridges, bumps and stimulation will get you off.
If you’re curious how you can make your own pocket pussy, see our guide to creating one with safe materials you already have.
Preparation for Enhanced Sensation
If you want it to feel like the real thing, warming the toy with a bowl of warm water before play can trick your body into believing it is a real pussy. Looking for an extra kick? Warming lubes achieve a similar effect as they spread inside. You can take the opposite approach as well. A chilled sleeve briefly put in the fridge will deliver a sharp shock that quickly turns into pleasure.
Do not limit yourself to standard lube either. Try a dab of tingly or buzzing formula but always make sure it is safe for the material of your toy. As long as it’s water-based, it won’t damage your silicone or TPE toy. Adding lube halfway through a session is another easy way to change the feeling. That fresh wave of slickness resets your nerves and prolongs the ride.
Innovative Techniques
Once you are prepped it is time to move beyond the basic in out motion. There is much more you can do. Try experimenting with these ideas to see how they change your pleasure.
Start with changing your rhythm. Slow deliberate strokes bring out every texture inside the toy. Mix them with quick thrusts and you will feel your body react to the contrast.
Other ways to switch things up include:
- Twist and rotate while you move to create a corkscrew effect that stimulates every side.
- Pause halfway then squeeze the toy before thrusting back in for a sudden shock of intensity.
- Use a pumping motion with shallow strokes followed by a deep push to create rolling waves of sensation.
You can also play with pressure. Grip the outside of the sleeve with your free hand to adjust tightness as you stroke. Light pressure gives glide while firm pressure creates a vice-like hold. Switching it up between light and firm techniques gives you different sensations that can change up the usual feeling you get from your fleshlight.
For extra variety, try angled thrusting to target different textures and shallow strokes that concentrate on the head only. Small changes like these might not sound dramatic but they turn a regular wank into something far more exciting.
If you want to stretch out your play then practise edging. Use the techniques above to build yourself close to orgasm, stop and then start again. Each cycle increases sensitivity until you finally let go and the release is far stronger. As is the pleasure.
Altering Feel and Tension
Going beyond how you use your toy, you can also alter the sleeve to give you a different experience. If you want to adjust how tight the toy feels, there are simple hacks:
- Make the canal smaller – Insert a rolled tissue or a small sponge wrapped safely at the end of the canal. This reduces internal space and makes every thrust feel deeper.
- Make the sleeve tighter – You can also use rubber bands around the outside of the sleeve. The extra squeeze makes the canal narrower and adds a level of grip you will not get otherwise.
- Temperature play – Pop the sleeve in the fridge for a short time until it is cold to the touch but not solid. Alternate between the warmth of your body and the chill of the toy and you will experience a pulsing effect that keeps you on edge.
Add to the Pleasure
You are not limited to the stroker alone. Why not add more toys and accessories to multiply the intensity?
Sound can make a big difference. Put on erotic audio and your brain will heighten arousal in response, or try music with a steady beat that can guide your rhythm or help you switch pace.
A small vibrator held against the perineum or shaft delivers steady buzz while the sleeve does its work. Anal toys such as slim dildos or plugs add deep p-spot stimulation that combines perfectly with the tight grip in front for enhanced pleasure. Even simple external pressure around the perineum while stroking can fire up sensations you did not expect.
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Make Your Solo Sessions Even Better
Every session can be as inventive as you want it to be. These solo techniques are not complicated yet they transform what you get from your toy. Explore them one by one, mix them together and feel the difference in every stroke.
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