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When it comes to male sex toys, everyone has questions — but not everyone feels comfortable asking them. That’s why online forums like Reddit and community Q&A boards are packed with repeat queries on everything from cleaning Fleshlights to whether it’s safe to travel with a vibrator in your carry-on.

To save you time (and a little embarrassment), we’ve rounded up 8 of the most common sex toy FAQs, drawn from real-world discussions and brand care guides. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or an experienced toy owner looking for better care tips, these answers will help you keep things safe, discreet, and long-lasting.

Contents:

• Do I need toy cleaner or is soap enough?
• Can I clean my toys later if I forgot?
• Can I share toys with a partner?
• Are flavoured lubes safe?
• Can silicone toys melt together?
• Are cheap toys safe?
• How long should toys last?
• Will shipping be discreet?

Cleaning & Hygiene

When people think about safe sex, how they use their sex toys isn’t usually top of their list, but keeping your toys clean is just as important as any other kind of sexual hygiene. In fact, it’s estimated that 1 in 4 infections is caused by shared or not properly cleaned toys.

Do I need toy cleaner or is soap enough?

Most of the time, you’re absolutely fine cleaning your toys with a simple, unscented soap and warm water. Specialist sex toy cleaners are convenient and sometimes quicker, but not essential.

Top tip: warm water is usually best for breaking down oil-based lubes, while cold water is better for water-based lube or semen. Use a combination of both for the best clean, especially for pocket pussies.

For more details, read our helpful guide on how to clean your pocket pussy. 

Can I clean my toys later if I forgot?

Yes, you can. While it’s best to clean your toys straight away, if you forget (or can’t), just make sure to do it as soon as you remember. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass or metal are your friend here, as there are fewer places for bacteria to hide. On the other hand, porous materials like rubber, latex, PVC, or TPE have small holes that can harbour nasty germs.

Just make sure that you are particularly thorough in your cleaning if you didn’t do it right away, and you should be fine.

Can I share toys with a partner?

Sharing sex toys does increase your risk of infection, but you absolutely can do it safely. First off, non-porous materials are much safer for sharing. Secondly, make sure you’re thoroughly cleaning your toys every time you use them. Finally, the safest way to share toys is to use a condom every time.

 

Lube Compatibility

Not all lubes were created equal, and each has its own strengths and weaknesses. Some lubes are actually harmful and can damage your sex toys, depending on the materials used.

Water-based lubes are the safest. They break down more easily than other lubes and are kinder on your toys. Silicone and oil-based lubes can be riskier. It’s thought that silicone lube can damage silicone toys, causing them to degrade over time, and, like oil-based lube, it’s harder to clean.

However water water-based lube dries out more quickly and has a looser feel. In short, Water-based lube is safest, but for many people, silicone and oil-based lube gives a better sensation. Just make sure you’re thoroughly cleaning your sex toys and checking for any damage regularly.

Are flavoured lubes safe?

Yes, flavoured lubes are absolutely safe if you buy good lube and clean your toys properly. It tends to be stickier and therefore harder to clean.

Can silicone toys melt together?

When we talk about silicone sex toys, there are actually lots of different types of silicone that can be used, and some of them don’t like each other very much.

The wrong types of silicone sex toys, when stored together in the wrong conditions, can cause each other to break down or even, in some more extreme circumstances, melt together.

The easy way to avoid this? Store your silicone toys in separate, cool, dry, and dark places and only use water-based lube with them.

 

Safety & Buying Tips

Like all things these days, it pays to be savvy when shopping for sex toys, and there are 3 questions that we see over and over again:

Are cheap toys safe?

They can be, but generally speaking, the cheaper your toy is, the higher your risk of infection or damage. Always acquaint yourself with the materials being used, whether you’re buying a cheap toy or an expensive one. And remember that non-porous materials are always safer.

How long should toys last?

Well-made sex toys that have been stored and cared for properly can last years; many people even report having the same dildo for 10+ years without it degrading.

Non-porous toys last longer (I’m beginning to see a trend here) and, as with most things, how long they last depends largely on how well it was made in the first place.

Will shipping be discreet?

Yes. Most reputable sites ship in plain, unbranded boxes with neutral sender names. Official Fleshlight stores, for example, use plain brown boxes.

Ready to Make a Purchase?

Finding the right sex toy isn’t just about choosing what looks good… It’s about knowing how to use it safely, clean it properly, and make it last. With the tips above, you can get more pleasure and peace of mind from every toy you own.

Looking for the perfect toy to start (or grow) your collection? Be sure to browse our bestsellers — all tried, tested, and backed by plenty of glowing reviews on TrustPilot.

And if you were wondering whether you can take your favourite toy on holiday, we’ve got you covered. Check out our blog – Can I Travel Abroad with Sex Toys? – for everything you need to know before packing your suitcase.

Whether you’re heading abroad for work, play, or a well-earned escape from UK life, the last thing you want is stress at security over your favourite toy.

As pleasure aficionados ourselves, we get it… Your satisfaction doesn’t stay at home just because you’re travelling. That’s why we’ve put together this Solofun guide on travelling abroad with your male sex toys, covering everything from airport rules to discreet packing and how to keep your kit safe on the move.

Contents:

• 1. Can You Take Sex Toys on a Plane?
• 2. How to Pack: Carry-On vs Checked
• 3. How to Hide Sex Toys Smartly
• 4. Know the Law: Country-Specific Restrictions
• 5. How to Store Sex Toys Safely While You Travel
• 6. Travel-Savvy Extras & Final Tips

1. Can You Take Sex Toys on a Plane?

Good news: yes, you can. UK airports don’t ban sex toys, and airlines generally treat them like any other personal item. However, as you might have guessed, the rules depend on where you’re flying. Security staff have the final say at checkpoints, and some countries still view sex toys as obscene or even illegal. That means what flies out of Heathrow might not fly into Dubai, Saudi Arabia, or even India.

Another thing to watch? Size and power. Vibrators, masturbators, and other battery-powered toys should go in your carry-on if they contain lithium batteries, as these aren’t allowed in checked bags. And while TSA guidelines (US) and UK equivalents allow them, random inspections do happen. If your bag gets pulled aside, a buzzing stroker at the bottom of your case is not a good look.  So, just to be safe, switching off travel lock modes (if your toy has one) and removing batteries where possible is a smart move.

To answer your question, yes, you can fly with toys, but it pays to know your destination’s rules before you pack. What feels normal at home might be a serious offence in certain parts of the world.

2. How to Pack: Carry-On vs Checked

The rules in the UK (and across most major airlines) are very clear: any rechargeable toy containing a lithium battery must go in your hand luggage. Think of them the same way you would your phone, laptop or power bank. You can usually carry up to 15 battery-powered devices with you on board, as long as they’re switched off. Spare batteries must also travel with you in your carry-on, in their original packaging or a strong protective case.

If you’re packing a toy that runs on standard batteries (AA/AAA), or one that isn’t electronic at all—like a stroker, dildo or butt plug—you’re generally fine to place it in checked luggage. Just make sure you’ve removed the batteries first to avoid the embarrassment of a buzzing suitcase on the baggage carousel. For lube or cleaner, remember the 100ml liquid restriction: anything larger has to go in your checked bag.

Looking for the perfect plaything… one that doesn’t require electricity? Browse our selection of pocket pussy toys and make your purchase today. 

3. How to Hide Sex Toys Smartly

Even though airport security staff have seen it all before, many travellers still prefer to keep their toys out of plain sight. Here’s how to stay discreet while still packing responsibly:

• Use travel cases: You’ll find many discreet storage cases online that double up as chargers or hygienic containers. They look like your average gadget cases, which helps to keep things discreet.
• Go undercover: Socks, toiletry bags, or a shaving kit are perfect hiding spots. Just avoid wrapping toys in tissue or loose fabric, as security may unwrap them for inspection.
• Be clear if needed: If you’re travelling with multiple toys, a transparent zip bag keeps things hygienic and helps security identify them quickly without rummaging.
• Mind the wording: Labelling items as “personal massager” on luggage tags or storage pouches can save awkward explanations if your bag is searched.

Oh, and remember that the biggest red flag for security isn’t the toy itself, it’s the noise. Always double-check that vibrators and powered devices are completely switched off before boarding.

Looking for a simple, battery-powered toy to bring on your travels? Why not check out our selection of blowjob machines? 

4. Know the Law: Country-Specific Restrictions

As we mentioned earlier, while UK airports and airlines are generally relaxed about adult products, the same can’t be said everywhere.

Sex toys that feel totally normal to us can be considered contraband in certain countries, and the consequences can be severe. Before you travel, take a few minutes to research the laws at your destination.

• Banned outright: Countries like the UAE, Maldives, Saudi Arabia, Malaysia, and Vietnam have strict rules against possession. In some cases, customs officers will confiscate items and fines (or worse) can follow.
• Restricted under obscenity laws: In places such as India, sex toys are not always illegal but may still be seized if labelled as “pornographic” or “obscene.” It often depends on the discretion of the officer on duty.
• Thailand: Despite its reputation for nightlife, Thailand officially bans sex toys and customs are known to take them if found.
• Safer destinations: Most of Europe, North America, and Australia treat sex toys like any other personal items. You’ll just need to follow normal airline baggage rules.

5. How to Store Sex Toys Safely While You Travel

Now let’s talk about how to store sex toys when you’re on the move:

• Always start clean: Wash and dry your toys thoroughly before you pack. Residue or moisture can cause bacterial growth, especially if you’re travelling to a hot climate.
• Dedicated storage bags: Invest in padded, lint-free toy bags or small pouches. These stop silicone from picking up dust and also protect delicate materials like glass or TPE from knocks inside your suitcase.
• Separate from toiletries: Don’t throw your stroker in with your shampoo bottle. If something leaks, you’ll regret it, so keep sex toys in their own compartment or pouch.
• Power safety: If your toy is rechargeable, drain the battery a little before you pack, and always make sure it’s turned off. For toys with removable batteries, take them out and store them separately in a safe case.
• Travel size wins: If you’re going away for just a few nights, pack compact toys. Not only are they easier to hide, they’re lighter and less likely to be damaged in transit. And yes… that means leaving your life-size sex doll at home. 

Wondering how to keep your toy in tip-top condition? Read our helpful guide on how to properly clean your pocket pussy. 

6. Travel-Savvy Extras & Final Tips

• Liquid limits for lube: In your hand luggage, bottles must be 100 ml (3.4 oz) or under and placed in a clear plastic liquids bag. That’s usually fine for travel-sized lubes, but if you prefer larger bottles, pack them in checked luggage—or buy when you land.
• Quiet or travel-lock toys: There’s nothing more awakward than a buzzing suitcase on the carousel. Most modern toys now come with travel-lock functions—learn how yours works before you fly. And if you’re shopping for new devices, check out some of our bestselling sex toys.
• Be cool at security: TSA and UK security agents see sex toys daily. They’re not shocked. If your bag is pulled aside, a calm smile and confident attitude go a long way. Panicking usually makes things more awkward than they need to be.
• Destination doubts: Not sure if your toys are allowed where you’re headed? Play it safe—either leave them at home or consider ordering discreetly from an online store once you arrive. Some retailers even ship internationally with plain packaging.
• Hotel discretion: If you’re staying in a hotel, remember that housekeeping will be in your room. Always keep toys stored in their pouches, tucked in a drawer or bag, not sitting on the nightstand.

Time to Get Packing! 

Travelling with sex toys isn’t something to stress over. With a little prep, you can bring pleasure along for the ride without the panic. Think of it like any other travel essential: you wouldn’t throw your toothbrush in loose, so don’t do it with your sex toy either.

Safe travels… and may your toys make the journey just as memorable as the destination.

Thinking about buying one of our realistic sex dolls or already have one sitting in your bedroom, waiting to be enjoyed? Whether it’s your first time or you’ve had a few in the past, using a sex doll properly is about more than just jumping straight in. From unboxing to cleaning, there’s a right way to do things if you want it to feel amazing, last longer, and stay safe to use.

In this guide, we’ll take you through every step of using your sex doll — the prep, the play, the aftercare, and even the mistakes to avoid — so you can get the most out of your investment.

Contents:

• 1. Choosing the Right Doll for You
• 2. Unboxing & Preparation
• 3. How to Have Sex with a Sex Doll
• 4. Safe & Pleasurable Positions
• 5. Cleaning & Aftercare
• 6. Storing Your Doll
• 7. Common Mistakes to Avoid

1. Choosing the Right Doll for You

Before we even get to the “how,” it’s worth making sure you’ve picked a doll that suits your needs. The two main materials you’ll find are:

• TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer): Soft, flexible, and ultra-lifelike, but porous, meaning it needs more careful cleaning and maintenance.
• Silicone: More durable, non-porous, and easier to clean, with incredible detailing, but a little firmer and usually more expensive.

Consider size, weight, and features as well, from basic models to dolls equipped with heating systems or articulated skeletons for more realistic positioning (much like the SoloFun BodyBabe).

Prefer something a little more compact? Why not browse our pocket pussy selection?

2. Unboxing & Preparation

When your doll arrives, take your time unboxing. Use clean hands or gloves to avoid transferring dirt or oils, and handle it gently to prevent any accidental scratches.

Before your first use:

• Give the doll a full wash with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap or toy cleaner.
• Dry thoroughly with a soft, lint-free cloth, especially around the orifices.
• If your doll came with a wig, brush it gently and fit it securely.
• Apply a light dusting of renewal powder to keep the skin feeling silky.

This not only makes the first session more hygienic but also helps the doll feel its best from day one.

3. How to Have Sex with a Sex Doll

Lube is your best friend here. Always use water-based lubricant with TPE or silicone dolls — oil or silicone-based lubes can break down the material and shorten the doll’s lifespan. If you want to make cleaning easier, you can use a condom, but it’s optional.

Most dolls offer three options: vaginal, anal, and oral. Here’s how to make the most of each:

• Vaginal: The most popular choice, often designed with internal textures that mimic the real thing. Apply lube to both yourself and the entrance, guide yourself in slowly, and enjoy the natural-feeling resistance.
• Anal: Tighter and often with a different texture. Use extra lube here to avoid friction damage. Insert slowly and avoid forcing positions that strain the hips or knees.
• Oral: Perfect for fantasy play and usually a little shorter in depth than the other orifices. Best enjoyed in seated or standing positions, supporting the doll’s head to avoid strain on the neck joint.

Position the doll comfortably on a bed, sofa, or chair before you start. If you’ve got a heated model, switch it on ahead of time so the body feels warm and lifelike. Treat the session like a real encounter — build up slowly, change positions if you like, and let yourself get immersed. The more realistic you make the experience, the better it feels.

4. Safe & Pleasurable Positions

 

One of the joys of a sex doll is experimentation, but you also want to avoid damaging the skeleton or tearing the material. Here are a few safe favourites:

• Missionary: Easy on the joints and great for eye contact.
• Doggy Style: Popular for a reason, but support her weight to avoid stress on the knees or hips.
• Spooning: Ideal if you want something more intimate and low-impact.
• Seated or Standing (with support): Works well if the doll has a strong internal frame — just avoid forcing joints beyond their range.

Always move limbs gently and never push against resistance — the internal skeleton is sturdy but not unbreakable.

5. Cleaning & Aftercare

Cleaning your doll after every session is non-negotiable. Here’s the quick process:

1. Rinse the orifices and body with warm water immediately after use.
2. Use a mild, unscented soap or sex toy cleaner with a soft sponge or irrigator.
3. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue.
4. Dry with a soft, clean cloth and allow the inside to air-dry completely (you can use an air pump or drying stick).
5. Once fully dry, dust lightly with renewal powder to keep the skin smooth.

Neglecting this step can lead to mould, bacteria growth, and unpleasant odours — not exactly what you want next time.

6. Storing Your Doll

Proper storage keeps your doll in good condition for longer. Options include:

• Hanging storage: Using a hook to suspend the doll reduces creasing or flattening.
• Specialised stand: Keeps the doll upright and stable.
• Lying flat: Works if you don’t have space to hang, but change her position occasionally to avoid pressure marks.

Keep her in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Remember to also avoid leaving tight or dark clothing on her for long periods, since it can cause staining or deformation.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

• Skipping the first clean: Always wash before and after the first use — factory residues can remain on the material.
• Using the wrong lube: Stick to water-based only.
• Forcing joints: This can break the skeleton and ruin the doll’s range of motion.
• Neglecting drying: Even tiny amounts of moisture can lead to mould inside the orifices.
• Improper storage: Heat, sunlight, and cramped spaces can permanently damage the material.

Ready for Some Fun? 

Using a sex doll isn’t complicated, but doing it right will make a world of difference to your experience and your doll’s lifespan. Treat her with care, keep her clean, and you’ll have a reliable, realistic companion for years to come.

To see what else we offer, browse our full collection of sex toys for men.

 

 

Yes, we know. Cleaning your pocket pussy probably isn’t the part you’re most excited about. It is, however, one of the most important. A properly cleaned stroker feels better, lasts longer, and is much, much healthier for your body.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know about cleaning your toy the right way — from quick rinses to deep care routines, material-specific tips, and the biggest mistakes to avoid. Whether it’s your first stroker or your favourite go-to, this blog will help you keep it in top condition.

Because at Solofun, we’re all about pleasure that lasts — and that starts with good hygiene.

Contents:

• Why Cleaning Your Toy is Important
• The Pre-Clean Check: What to Look For
• How to Clean Your Pocket Pussy (Step by Step)
• Drying & Storage: Where Most People Go Wrong
• Common Cleaning Mistakes & Myths

Why Cleaning Your Toy is Important

Your pussy toy is designed to feel as close to the real thing as possible — but unlike a real partner, it won’t clean itself.

Every time you use it, you’re leaving behind lube, sweat, skin cells, and semen. Combine that with heat and moisture, and you’ve got the ideal environment for bacteria, yeast, and mould to grow. 

Proper cleaning:

• Protects your body: Prevents infections, rashes, and irritation caused by bacterial buildup
• Preserves the feel: Keeps soft materials from degrading, drying out, or becoming sticky
• Prevents odours: Avoids the unpleasant smells that can develop if it’s not cleaned and dried properly

Basically, think of it like skincare for your favourite toy. Take care of it, and it’ll keep taking care of you.

 

The Pre-Use Check: What to Look For

Before you even start using the toy, do a quick once-over. It takes less than 30 seconds and can save you from bigger problems down the line.

• Check for rips or tears: Especially around the opening and inner canal. Even small splits can trap bacteria or make cleaning less effective.
• Inspect for mould or discolouration: Look for any unusual spots, slimy patches, or changes in colour — all red flags that the toy wasn’t dried properly last time.
• Smell it: A musty, sour, or overly “chemical” smell could mean it’s harbouring bacteria or starting to break down.
• Check for dust and lint: If it’s been sitting out, it may have picked up debris that needs rinsing off before you dive in.

If anything seems off — damage, smells, or gunk — don’t just ignore it. Either clean it thoroughly before use or (if it’s beyond saving) replace it. You don’t want to risk irritation or infection for the sake of a quick session.

 

How to Clean Your Pocket Pussy (Step by Step)

Want your stroker to feel good and last longer? Then it all comes down to proper cleaning. The good news? It’s easier than most people think, and once you’ve done it a couple of times, it becomes second nature.

This method works for almost all common materials: TPE, silicone, Superskin, and Cyberskin. Still not sure what your toy is made of? Check the packaging, or search the brand on the Solofun site — we always include care info on our product pages.

Here’s how to clean it properly from the inside out:

1. Rinse immediately with warm water: As soon as you’re done using it, flush out the inside and outer sleeve under warm running water. Don’t wait — dried semen and lube become much harder (and grosser) to clean later.
2. Apply a gentle, unscented soap or toy cleaner: Use your fingers (not brushes or cloths) to gently massage the cleaner into the canal and opening. Sex toy-specific cleaners are best, but mild soap works fine too — as long as it’s fragrance-free and non-abrasive.
3. Rinse again — thoroughly: Any leftover soap can irritate your skin during your next session, so give it a final rinse until you’re sure everything’s out and the water runs clear.
4. Dry the outside with a clean towel: Use something soft, clean, and lint-free. Microfibre is great. 
5. Let the inside air-dry completely: This step matters more than most people realise. Stand the toy upright or prop it open with something like a chopstick or straw so air can circulate. Let it dry somewhere cool and clean, out of direct sunlight or humidity.

Want to go the extra mile? Once it’s fully dry, lightly dust the inside with a renewing powder (like cornstarch or a purpose-made toy powder) to keep the material silky-soft and avoid stickiness. Just don’t overdo it — a light coat is all you need.

 

Drying & Storage: Where Most People Go Wrong

This is the step that gets skipped the most — and it’s also where the biggest problems start. Even if you clean your toy perfectly, putting it away while it’s still damp creates the perfect breeding ground for bacteria, mould, and bad smells. 

Here’s how to dry and store it the right way:

• Let it air-dry completely: Not just for 10 minutes. Ideally, leave it out for a few hours in a clean, well-ventilated area. Prop the opening open using a chopstick or similar tool so air gets inside.
• Use a breathable storage option: Avoid sealing your toy in airtight containers or ziplock bags — they trap leftover moisture. Instead, go for a cotton pouch, mesh bag, or the case it came with (if it allows airflow).
• Keep it cool and out of sunlight: Heat can warp soft materials and break down the texture over time. Choose a dry, shaded spot away from radiators or steamy bathrooms.

If you’re really committed, you can rotate the toy occasionally while drying to make sure no damp spots linger. It sounds like a lot, but it’ll make a big difference, especially if you spent good money on a high-end stroker.

 

Common Cleaning Mistakes & Myths

Even experienced toy owners get tripped up by misinformation. Let’s bust a few of the biggest myths right now:

• “Hand soap or shampoo is fine.”
  It might seem harmless, but most household soaps are packed with perfumes, dyes, or antibacterial agents that can irritate your skin and dry out your toy. Always go for a toy-specific cleaner or a mild, fragrance-free soap.
• “I’ll just boil it.”
  Tempting, but dangerous. Boiling water will melt or warp most pocket pussies. They’re not built like silicone dildos. Stick to warm water and gentle cleansers — never heat.
• “I’ll clean it tomorrow.”
  That’s how toys end up crusty, smelly, or growing things you don’t want near your body. Clean it right after use. It takes five minutes and saves you from throwing it out in disgust later.

 

Want Your Pussy Toy to Last Longer?

Treat it with care, and it’ll return the favour. Clean it like you’d clean yourself — gently, thoroughly, and with attention. That way, you can enjoy better sessions, a longer-lasting toy, and fewer unpleasant surprises.

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